MEN ARE CHANNELS
Few weeks ago, I got a message from a Lady, wanting to register for my one-on-one coaching session on writing and book publishing. After she told me who she got my contact from (her name), the truth is that, I don’t know who she spoke about. As a matter of fact, I do not have the name she called on my contact list but that cannot change the fact that, we closed a five figure deal that same day: in less than thirty minutes.
Hear me Friends, most times, those on our list are not the ones who will pay for what we do or buy the products we sell but those who are on the list of those we know.
There is this Guy who I have never chatted with. I met him on this space. I’ve never wished him a “happy birthday” or send him a hello but on a particular day, a Lady sent me a message, wanting my services as an Editor and a Coach. And lo! She told me that particular Guy gave her my contact and I was like😲. And in less than ten minutes, we closed a deal of #40,000 and my “bank akant” kept shouting Hallelujah!😋
What is my point exactly? Friend, the truth still stands that, Men are channels. If you ignore them in you journey to success, you will suffer.
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No doubt, 65% of the money I earn is not coming directly from me. They are not coming because of the force I’ve been able to pull. No! They are not. As a matter of fact, 65% of the money that comes to my bank account is from Referrals. Countless times, Ive heard words like, XYZ told me you are the perfect person for this job. “Mr B gave me your contact.”
No doubt, if I were the only one pulling the strings to earn, I’ll definitely get frustrated. As a matter of fact, I honestly do not trivialize the presence of Men in my life. I honor people because in them lies many possibilities.
In the month of June, I was telling a Lady how much I have made from the people she sent to me. She screamed!
From the people she sent to me alone, I have made “sweatless” huge six figures. Like, countless five figures! And do you know the amazing thing? This Lady is just a “tiny young Lady”. Friends, do not trivialize Men.
The fact the people on your list are not buying from you today does not mean they will not bring clients for you tomorrow. The fact they are not buying from you today does not mean they won’t buy from you tomorrow. Please, do not trivialize Men because Men are channels.
If all you earn today is directly from the effort you pull, you are seriously suffering. In your journey to success, there is a place for Men: do not trivialize them.
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During the Writers’ Summit III, I had over seventy persons who registered for the class. And Yes! You will be making a huge mistake to think those 70+ persons came directly from me or strictly from the effort I was able to pul.
From my end, I can humbly say I brought only 10 persons but the question is; where did the remaining 60+ people came from? The answer is, MEN!
You shared the flier and gave your word about it. You endorsed the event and people paid for it. What if I had ignored you or trivialized you? What if I had told you straight to your face that I do not need you? No doubt, I would have lost so much money.
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Friends, in my present life and in the life to come, I will never trivialize Men because Men are the real deal. Men are channels. Men are gateways. Many possibilities reside in Men. Let me not stretch it further but I hope you got the gist already?
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